Sunday, February 12, 2012

Memory: Luck you were born a guy

I don't remember when this happened, but I recall being in the basement of my parents house.  My mom was down there doing laundry and she made the following comment to me:

"You are lucky you were born a guy in this family."

That stopped me.  When I asked her what she meant, she told me to consider the females in my family.  My mother.  My sister.  My aunt (mother's sister). My grandmother (mother's mother).  ALL of them suffered from mental health issues that had huge impacts on their lives.  So my mom believes that some gene was passed to all the females in the family.

Myself and my cousin (male) don't seem to suffer from the same issues, so maybe she has a point.  I'm not sure, but I'm scared of having a daughter of my own some day.  Am I bringing her into the world to suffer?

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